Young people in the modern era are more open about love and are more willing to have sex before marriage. While it is not wrong from a legal perspective, it can also put them at risk of future damage.
Therefore, it is not a good decision if young people get involved too early in love and sexual activities when they are not yet strong enough to have a proper job and have economic capacity.
When Valentine’s Day comes on February 14th, all young men and women Be careful not to get involved in sex life because a moment of pleasure can ruin your future life. For example, if young men and women fall in love during their school years, they may forget to study and study, and even drop out of school. “No education, no future” is something that young men and women must remember.
Of course, when people become adults, sexual desire and love also begin to exist naturally. But it is also necessary to control this feeling, not to burn too much so that it does not destroy one’s future.
From the beginning until the 1990s, the fact that women and men have sex before marriage has been negatively viewed by society, and in cases where they go too far and have more children, society condemns them. However, in today’s society, things seem to have changed and reduced a lot.
In the society of that time, men could get away with it because in general, men were considered to be like gold that fell into the mud, fell repeatedly, just picked up and washed, and were as clean as before, while women were like white canvases. When they fell into the mud, they only had black marks that were difficult to wash off. And children born from this shameless act were considered by society to be unruly children.
This kind of mindset still exists in our Khmer society, which is why the story about singer Tep Bo Prang and Mr. Ngoun exploded on social media. Chandavit, who is often known as G. David, with a friend named Aglo, who is a famous friend in the country who often produces funny videos.
Today, although this mentality still exists and is rare in polite society, many young men and women have joined hands to live together and have sex, and even start a family without marriage. Besides the famous singer couple above, there are many other stars who have decided to join hands with each other.
Some young men and women have joined hands and lived together, trying to see each other’s faces for many years, and even working together to build a life of honor and dignity until they are old enough to decide to get married. There are many couples.
Building a life and a love life like this has its successes and failures, and there are also many fights and disagreements. In the past, premarital life and living together were fraught with jealousy and even violence. There were also many cases of violence.
Some of these changes in social contexts are due to economic conditions and the influx of foreign cultures. Nowadays, the cost of a proper wedding is high, while income is limited and family resources are scarce. Therefore, some young men and women decide to live together before marriage, to unite as a force to seek the fruits of their efforts, to have capital to organize a ceremony to seek recognition from society as equals and equals with others.
Based on the law and natural law, deciding to join hands and have sexual relations with each other before marriage is not wrong, but they are responsible for the children born. When people reach adulthood, the need for sexual relations will arise, and it is also part of the rights that every person has. This problem is the need of instinct that nature requires, but society uses tradition and culture as a barrier to prevent and suppress the mind and defines it as a moral value to impose.
In particular, the results of the testimony of the sexual union that occurs, namely sons or daughters, are not illegal. They have all the rights like ordinary boys and girls. When it happens, even if their father and mother are not married, they can still register a birth certificate, which is a legal document that identifies their identity and nationality of birth, with just a medical certificate.
In summary, let’s weigh in and what has been mentioned above can be considered as a discussion idea to be a capital for young people to consider in deciding to set plans or activities in life when the day of love, which some call Valentine’s Day, arrives on Friday, February 14th. This year 2025.
Please think carefully and weigh the causes and effects related to honor, decency, and justice that may arise when you make a decision. The future is yours and the fruits we build will come, and please be prepared to accept and fight for success in the future. And the boys and girls who are born from this fruit, do not let them be involved because they have laws that protect their dignity and honor and guarantee all their rights.
